Happy New Year! Tomorrow, we get back down to business with the girls returning to school and all of the stuff that goes along with it. They are excited, I think, and it will be good for the structure if nothing else.
2010, we hope, WILL be the year that HG comes home. I heard a story in the last few days about 2 farmers. Both lived in the same area and were praying for rain. One of them prepared his fields so that when the rain came, his plantings would be ready to grow. The other one just prayed for the rain. When the rain came, the second farmer wasn't ready and didn't yield any crops. The first one was. So, we're trying to "be ready" so that when the rain comes, we will be ready. I'm not sure what "getting ready" fully entails, but this story has stuck in my mind for the last few days. Be ready and pray. So, I've been cleaning, getting ready. HG's bedroom is ready. I'm reorganizing the home office (anyone need/want a nice computer cabinet?) which will take me the rest of this week, I believe, with working and all. What else? I don't know. I'll keep praying, asking God to show me what else I need to do to be ready.
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Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Mama Bear
That's me. Mama Bear. Mess with my kids, and you'll have to deal with me. I just have one problem. I don't know how to fight back on this one. The US Embassy is continuing to give me problems. Big, big problems. Not backing down. Mama is tired. I can't keep fighting. Yes, I know I can, but today, my mind is too tired. I can't think. I can't get it together. I can't figure out what to do. So, today, I have ignored it. Yes, I've thought about it all day, but a part of me has pretended I don't have to deal with it. But, tomorrow will come. The problem will still be there. And I still have to figure out what to do. Please pray. Please pray for wisdom in solving this problem. Please pray those at the US Embassy to realize how and why I cannot comply with their requests. Our hearts are heavy and I just want to crawl into my bed and come out only when this bad dream is over. Is it over yet? Nope, I'm afraid not. HG needs us. She doesn't have anyone else in her corner except us. Strengthen us, Lord Jesus. We are weak and cannot do this alone. I know you are here. Please make your presence known to us, giving us a calm and peace.
Monday, December 28, 2009
Santa has a beard!
I was finally able to get through on the phone to speak with our dear HG. We've been trying since Christmas Day, but the calls just would not go through. But, we were lucky last night. "Hello, Ma Ma Mee" was the greeting I heard and then a little giggle. I spoke to her for a moment and then said, "Merry Christmas!" She repeated the phrase back to me. Then, I asked about Santa. Another giggle. "Ho! Ho! Ho! Merry Christmas!" was my reply which was met with a BIG giggle! HV and HM both got giggles with their Santa impersonations as well. While HM, otherwise known as "Hoo Hoo" to HG, was on the phone, she/HM told me to wait a minute because someone else was talking to her. I don't think she understood what he was saying, but it was HG's foster brother. He was telling HM that HG was telling her about Santa. HG told HM that Santa has a beard and says Ho Ho Ho! The foster brother told me this when I got back on the phone and said that HG laughs at him and his father each day when she sees them put the shaving cream on their face. He laughed and said that he might be a little overweight, but come on! I thought it was hilarious and shows SUCH great progress for my little dearie. To attempt to tell Hoo Hoo about Santa and then to transfer her picture knowledge of Santa to that of her foster brother and dad's shaving creamed faces is FANTASTIC! So, it gave me a peace. A calm. Oh how I miss that girlie!
HG's foster mom doesn't speak much English and while can communicate just fine in person using our hands or whatever, she doesn't care to talk on the phone. We typically always end conversations with me asking if she has any questions for me and then she asks if I have any questions for her. This part is typically facilitated by a family member that speaks better English. Last night, I didn't have any questions for them but I did thank them for loving HG for us. Her foster brother's response was "Well, that's easy to do. And, we are happy to do it!" That just gives me more peace and more calm. I need that calmness right now. My mind is running "900 miles an hour" as we say here in the South. HG's birthday is a mere 1 week away. Her 5th birthday. And she won't be here for it.
Thank you, Lord, for such a sweet and loving foster family for HG. Give us the strength to continue waiting for her arrival here at home. There are days when it is so hard and all we can do is lean on You. Please, Lord. Let it be soon.
HG's foster mom doesn't speak much English and while can communicate just fine in person using our hands or whatever, she doesn't care to talk on the phone. We typically always end conversations with me asking if she has any questions for me and then she asks if I have any questions for her. This part is typically facilitated by a family member that speaks better English. Last night, I didn't have any questions for them but I did thank them for loving HG for us. Her foster brother's response was "Well, that's easy to do. And, we are happy to do it!" That just gives me more peace and more calm. I need that calmness right now. My mind is running "900 miles an hour" as we say here in the South. HG's birthday is a mere 1 week away. Her 5th birthday. And she won't be here for it.
Thank you, Lord, for such a sweet and loving foster family for HG. Give us the strength to continue waiting for her arrival here at home. There are days when it is so hard and all we can do is lean on You. Please, Lord. Let it be soon.
Monday, December 21, 2009
ya!
Ya literally means "already" in spanish. It is, however, also used as "I'm done already!" too. For example, if you are done playing with something, you could give it back to the owner and say "ya!" This is one of HG's new words and she uses it correctly. When sitting on the potty, she says "ya" when she is done and is ready for you to give her the paper if she can't reach it. Ya actually explains a lot for us right now, you now. Ya is exactly right, my lovie.
Sorry. The "few days" I said it would take for me to write about my trip to Guatemala turned into much longer. My mind. Remember we were waiting for the certified copies and then we got them? Well, after they were submitted to the PGN/Attorney General's Office, we decided I should go down, trying to push it through the remainder of the process in that office. I flew down on Monday afternoon and finally crawled into my bed in Antigua around 12 a.m. The alarm went off at 4:15 a.m. and I was downstairs by 5 a.m., ready to ride in the van. Little HG was coming along with me! She was a little stand-offish at first, but once her foster mom, A, left and HG realized it was either me or no one, she was fine. No tears or anything like that. We went to the US Embassy where I submitted these same certified copies, then off to the Judge's Court for some other certified copies (2 hour wait for 12 total photocopied pages), and then over to the PGN. Lots of waiting, of course, every where we went, but that's Guatemala. At the PGN, we were told that they now needed yet another document before they would release the file for processing. So, my trip didn't accomplish too much except to find out these new/additional requirements, getting the copies submitted to the Embassy, and last but not least, spending some time with my precious HG. There haven't been many new developments since then, sadly. Not much happens in Guatemala right now (at least not in the legal arena) due to Christmas celebrations, but we have some things in the works and I DO hope and pray that they are fruitful.
My time with HG was precious. She did indeed remember me. My name on this visit was often "Ma-Ma-Mee" which was pretty cute. She stayed pretty close to me and even refused to accept a cracker from my translator friend but would only take it from me. Her walking looks GREAT! I only saw the "dandy walker stance" when she was walking barefooted in our hotel room (tile floor). In the past, I would see the stance anytime we were walking someplace completely unfamiliar. I didn't see that this time. Praise the Lord! That means her legs are getting stronger, she is becoming more sure with her movements, and perhaps even she is negotiating better with the vision she has. She does speak quite a bit more now, using more words (even words that I didn't teach her before and yet I could understand her!). She did wet her pants while we were waiting for the copies at the Judge's Court. I take full responsibility, however, because I was tickling her after letting her spin round and round in the office chair. Laughing as hard as she was, I'm surprised I didn't go too because I was laughing so hard at her laughing! She did say "O! Pee Pee!" but it was too late. I had plenty of clothes for a change, but no panties. So, she had to go "commando" for the rest of the day! :) Funny story--the translator asked me after the clothing change if I had noticed a rash or something on HG's bottom. I said no but why did she ask? She said that HG kept pulling at her bottom and scratching. I smiled and told her that HG had no panties on and that I was quite certain that the tag was in her crack! I'd be pickin' my seat too, you know. Anyway, she was a real trooper and would often raise her arms up, asking me to pick her up. She fell asleep in the car on the way back to Antigua and she was OUT! She did wake up to eat a bit of pizza for dinner and then back down for the night. She wasn't as snuggly with me as she was in the past, but that's ok. She wasn't bothered by me being in the same bed as her, so I have no complaints. We spent the day together on Wednesday, just doing things together around the town. We visited her school where we talked with her teacher and I met her friend, Anuk. The foster mom took us to the school and then back to our hotel. When it came time to get out of the car, HG scooted as far away from me in the car and said "Bye Bye!" waving at me but not necessarily wanting to go with me. I picked her up from the car as she was screaming and back inside the hotel grounds. We sat down on a bench where she allowed me to hold and comfort her. After she stopped crying (was a very short time) but with her head still on my chest, she quietly said, "Pachita" and so we climbed the stairs to our getting, getting her a bottle of milk. I was so happy to see her tell me what she needed or wanted AND that I understood. We enjoyed a pasta dinner and an ice cream cone, of course. While we waited for our food, my arm was completely covered with her sweet kisses. That girl. She would kiss my hand and then lift her hand for me to kiss. Then the other hand. We then decided that I would take the early flight home on Thursday instead of the late flight and so HG went home with her foster family. We spent about 40 hours together and it was great. She was delighted to listen to her sisters on the telephone. She was perfectly fine being with me but does prefer her foster family if given a choice. Oh, how I want that girlie home.
I was talking with my sweet friend, Chick-A-Dee, on Saturday afternoon. I told her that I do not know what God is trying to teach us through this, but I know His timing is perfect and that these things are happening for a reason. I, of course, want to tell God, "But, couldn't I learn it in a different way?" I guess not. HG IS being well cared for by her foster family. They love her dearly and she loves them. She IS learning. Words that she could clearly say to me were por favor, sientate, gracias, buenas tardes, hello, hola, bye bye, pachita, ya, doo doo, pee pee, and mas. I know there were more, but these were the main ones. Another funny story--we were leaving the hotel grounds and the "gate keeper" spoke to HG. She didn't answer and so I told him that she doesn't speak much (this was all done in spanish). He opened the gate for us and as we exited, she said "Gracias! Buenas Tardes!" He and I both cracked up. She showed me, didn't she?
Please continue to pray. It is difficult as the celebration of Jesus' birth approaches this week without her here. Yes, she will enjoy Christmas with her family and we will enjoy it here. She does, however, have presents under our tree. I know we will have many more Christmases with her in the future. But we miss her on this one too. The girls wish she was here too. Not a day goes by without one of them saying "Man, I miss her." We do well on most days, and then something will just take the wind from my sail and I'm down. I'm choosing to focus this week on preparing my heart and mind for the birth of our Savior. My savior. Without Him I could NOT do this. My heart does, of course, hurt for my daughter that isn't here. Ya is right. Let's be done with this!
Sorry. The "few days" I said it would take for me to write about my trip to Guatemala turned into much longer. My mind. Remember we were waiting for the certified copies and then we got them? Well, after they were submitted to the PGN/Attorney General's Office, we decided I should go down, trying to push it through the remainder of the process in that office. I flew down on Monday afternoon and finally crawled into my bed in Antigua around 12 a.m. The alarm went off at 4:15 a.m. and I was downstairs by 5 a.m., ready to ride in the van. Little HG was coming along with me! She was a little stand-offish at first, but once her foster mom, A, left and HG realized it was either me or no one, she was fine. No tears or anything like that. We went to the US Embassy where I submitted these same certified copies, then off to the Judge's Court for some other certified copies (2 hour wait for 12 total photocopied pages), and then over to the PGN. Lots of waiting, of course, every where we went, but that's Guatemala. At the PGN, we were told that they now needed yet another document before they would release the file for processing. So, my trip didn't accomplish too much except to find out these new/additional requirements, getting the copies submitted to the Embassy, and last but not least, spending some time with my precious HG. There haven't been many new developments since then, sadly. Not much happens in Guatemala right now (at least not in the legal arena) due to Christmas celebrations, but we have some things in the works and I DO hope and pray that they are fruitful.
My time with HG was precious. She did indeed remember me. My name on this visit was often "Ma-Ma-Mee" which was pretty cute. She stayed pretty close to me and even refused to accept a cracker from my translator friend but would only take it from me. Her walking looks GREAT! I only saw the "dandy walker stance" when she was walking barefooted in our hotel room (tile floor). In the past, I would see the stance anytime we were walking someplace completely unfamiliar. I didn't see that this time. Praise the Lord! That means her legs are getting stronger, she is becoming more sure with her movements, and perhaps even she is negotiating better with the vision she has. She does speak quite a bit more now, using more words (even words that I didn't teach her before and yet I could understand her!). She did wet her pants while we were waiting for the copies at the Judge's Court. I take full responsibility, however, because I was tickling her after letting her spin round and round in the office chair. Laughing as hard as she was, I'm surprised I didn't go too because I was laughing so hard at her laughing! She did say "O! Pee Pee!" but it was too late. I had plenty of clothes for a change, but no panties. So, she had to go "commando" for the rest of the day! :) Funny story--the translator asked me after the clothing change if I had noticed a rash or something on HG's bottom. I said no but why did she ask? She said that HG kept pulling at her bottom and scratching. I smiled and told her that HG had no panties on and that I was quite certain that the tag was in her crack! I'd be pickin' my seat too, you know. Anyway, she was a real trooper and would often raise her arms up, asking me to pick her up. She fell asleep in the car on the way back to Antigua and she was OUT! She did wake up to eat a bit of pizza for dinner and then back down for the night. She wasn't as snuggly with me as she was in the past, but that's ok. She wasn't bothered by me being in the same bed as her, so I have no complaints. We spent the day together on Wednesday, just doing things together around the town. We visited her school where we talked with her teacher and I met her friend, Anuk. The foster mom took us to the school and then back to our hotel. When it came time to get out of the car, HG scooted as far away from me in the car and said "Bye Bye!" waving at me but not necessarily wanting to go with me. I picked her up from the car as she was screaming and back inside the hotel grounds. We sat down on a bench where she allowed me to hold and comfort her. After she stopped crying (was a very short time) but with her head still on my chest, she quietly said, "Pachita" and so we climbed the stairs to our getting, getting her a bottle of milk. I was so happy to see her tell me what she needed or wanted AND that I understood. We enjoyed a pasta dinner and an ice cream cone, of course. While we waited for our food, my arm was completely covered with her sweet kisses. That girl. She would kiss my hand and then lift her hand for me to kiss. Then the other hand. We then decided that I would take the early flight home on Thursday instead of the late flight and so HG went home with her foster family. We spent about 40 hours together and it was great. She was delighted to listen to her sisters on the telephone. She was perfectly fine being with me but does prefer her foster family if given a choice. Oh, how I want that girlie home.
I was talking with my sweet friend, Chick-A-Dee, on Saturday afternoon. I told her that I do not know what God is trying to teach us through this, but I know His timing is perfect and that these things are happening for a reason. I, of course, want to tell God, "But, couldn't I learn it in a different way?" I guess not. HG IS being well cared for by her foster family. They love her dearly and she loves them. She IS learning. Words that she could clearly say to me were por favor, sientate, gracias, buenas tardes, hello, hola, bye bye, pachita, ya, doo doo, pee pee, and mas. I know there were more, but these were the main ones. Another funny story--we were leaving the hotel grounds and the "gate keeper" spoke to HG. She didn't answer and so I told him that she doesn't speak much (this was all done in spanish). He opened the gate for us and as we exited, she said "Gracias! Buenas Tardes!" He and I both cracked up. She showed me, didn't she?
Please continue to pray. It is difficult as the celebration of Jesus' birth approaches this week without her here. Yes, she will enjoy Christmas with her family and we will enjoy it here. She does, however, have presents under our tree. I know we will have many more Christmases with her in the future. But we miss her on this one too. The girls wish she was here too. Not a day goes by without one of them saying "Man, I miss her." We do well on most days, and then something will just take the wind from my sail and I'm down. I'm choosing to focus this week on preparing my heart and mind for the birth of our Savior. My savior. Without Him I could NOT do this. My heart does, of course, hurt for my daughter that isn't here. Ya is right. Let's be done with this!
Monday, December 14, 2009
Trials with the US Embassy
Oh, friends. Since I have last written, I have made a quick trip to Guatemala. I'll write more about that experience and getting to spend a little time with my sweet HG in a day or so. Right now, I ask for your prayers for the staff of the US Embassy. For some odd reason (I honestly don't understand it and so I can't explain it to you), they have made a bizarre "conclusion" to HG's case. While "the fat lady hasn't sang" yet by any means, it is a big obstacle for us right now. They are asking for paperwork/documentation that does not legally exist for HG because of the type of case that she is. This case type is decided by the Guatemalan government, not the US Embassy. And so, I am currently trying to "convince" them of HG's legal status by simply showing them the proof in the writings/declarations of the Judge and the Appeals Court. It's not my opinion. It's the declaration from the Judge that states her legal standing. The Embassy, however, has opted at this point to disregard that and make their own rules. Please pray that they will retract their current requirements as it is impossible for us to comply. Please pray that they will simply see their oversight with this issue and will issue that preapproval/Embassy Consent. Please pray that if the officer doesn't see or understand the information she is reading, one of the coworkers, whether in Guatemala or in Washington DC, will help her see the information that is clearly stated in the resolution. Please pray that this will be resolved this week. It can happen. I know it can.
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
The Eagle has LANDED!
Hot off the press: I just received an email from my attorney that he has now received the certified copies that we need. THANK THE LORD! So, he will submit the copies to the PGN/Attorney General's office and the US Embassy by the end of the week. THEN, hopefully it won't be too much longer and we are done! Yippee!
Monday, November 30, 2009
My dog ate my homework
My sister is a teacher. I have friends that are teachers. I've even thought about being a teacher. One excuse, however, that we have all heard, even if just in a joke, is "My dog ate my homework." We all blow it off as a lame excuse, right? Well, that's what happened today in Guatemala. Today was the day we were supposed to get the certified copies we NEED in order to process. We've been waiting for the right day for the last 2 weeks, I think. Well, the translator went to pick things up today and guess what? No copies. Why? Well, the copier is out of toner. You know, "My dog ate my homework." No toner? Of course, there are multiple storieslevels and multiple courts in this one building but no, a copier on another floor or court could not be used. We suggested that the translator just go out and purchase the toner cartridge herself (we would pay her back, of course). She said she had already proposed that to the clerk but the clerk and judge said that they didn't want to be accused of accepting a bribe and so they couldn't do that. So, the ink cartridge is supposed to arrive tomorrow morning. It was also supposed to be there today too. Again, I won't be holding my breath for those copies. I'm glad I didn't start holding it yesterday. I'd be dead by now....
Today, I asked HV to help me snap a photo of the two dogs together for the Christmas card. Here's what she captured in the first attempt
As I uploaded this photo from my camera, it really reminded me of today's happenings in Guatemala. The camera and the operator were just a little slow, not capturing the intended subject of the photo. Instead, we got a blurry of the grass, nothing else. Just the same ol' grass. And just like this photo, tomorrow J and I will try again to capture a decent photo of the dogs together for the card and the translator will return to court, again, to attempt to obtain those copies. Oh my!
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Wrap Up from Last Week
It's hard to believe that Thanksgiving is this week. I love Thanksgiving. I love the food. I love the preparations for Christmas. I was oh so hoping that HG would be home for Christmas, but I don't know. I KNOW that God can do anything. He CAN move mountains. He CAN move the Guatemalan government (and the US Embassy). I will pray it. Will you pray it with me?
We still don't have THE papers that we need. We are close, oh so close. The last notification was done on Friday, thanks to some very diligent work by one person in Guatemala. Now, we have to wait until Thursday, yep Thanksgiving Day, to get the certified copies. Then, we will be able to present them to the PGN/Attorney General's office and to the US Embassy. If they will hold up on their previous agreements to process our case quickly, we should be done the next week (the week after Thanksgiving or first week of December). Yes, it COULD be that simple. Will it? I don't know. I will pray for it to happen that way. Then, there are some wrap up steps and then we bring our "baby" home! Can you imagine? Our THREE girls under one roof--sisters forever! I'm ready. We're all ready.
We still don't have THE papers that we need. We are close, oh so close. The last notification was done on Friday, thanks to some very diligent work by one person in Guatemala. Now, we have to wait until Thursday, yep Thanksgiving Day, to get the certified copies. Then, we will be able to present them to the PGN/Attorney General's office and to the US Embassy. If they will hold up on their previous agreements to process our case quickly, we should be done the next week (the week after Thanksgiving or first week of December). Yes, it COULD be that simple. Will it? I don't know. I will pray for it to happen that way. Then, there are some wrap up steps and then we bring our "baby" home! Can you imagine? Our THREE girls under one roof--sisters forever! I'm ready. We're all ready.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Hoy
Hoy yo tengo no papeles. Yo estoy triste. Ahora "la nueva manana" es lunes. Yo espero. O Dios, yo espero. Sabré más información el viernes. Yo estoy rogando.
Monday, November 16, 2009
No papeles
Well, I guess today wasn't the right "tomorrow." Maybe tomorrow?
Please pray for us. We're struggling with this all. IF there was a good or decent reason for the delays, that would be one thing. But, we have done what they have asked--return tomorrow/Monday--and nada. :( My heart is sad.
I talked to HG on the phone last night. She greeted me with "Hi, Mommy!" Yep. Mommy. Remember it used to be "Nee Nee." Now, I'm Mommy. Just a little more heart break for me.
Going to bed with my tail between my legs, just like our puppy which I haven't been able to tell you much about.
Please pray for us. We're struggling with this all. IF there was a good or decent reason for the delays, that would be one thing. But, we have done what they have asked--return tomorrow/Monday--and nada. :( My heart is sad.
I talked to HG on the phone last night. She greeted me with "Hi, Mommy!" Yep. Mommy. Remember it used to be "Nee Nee." Now, I'm Mommy. Just a little more heart break for me.
Going to bed with my tail between my legs, just like our puppy which I haven't been able to tell you much about.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
The new tomorrow?
Well, the word from down south is that Monday will be new tomorrow. Supposedly, we will be able to get the documents we need on Monday. There's a part of me that wants to believe it, but I guess I've "been there, done that" before and it was the wrong Monday. So, please pray that Monday IS indeed the day we can get our paperwork.
Have a good weekend! I'm going to try and introduce our other new family member over the weekend. Think fur. Think 4 legs. Think little cutie pie.
Have a good weekend! I'm going to try and introduce our other new family member over the weekend. Think fur. Think 4 legs. Think little cutie pie.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Still NO Green Flag
boo! As of Tuesday afternoon, the document still hasn't been signed. The judge didn't work on Monday--her mom had some sort of medical emergency. While I am deeply sorry about her mom (and I will pray for her healing), if she had signed the document last week, we would have been out of her hair! Every day, the answer is "maybe tomorrow." Which tomorrow? My patience is growing thin....
Friday, November 6, 2009
Where's the GREEN flag?
I feel like we are going round and round--like with a car/NASCAR race. The caution flag as been raised and everyone is going around, being careful because something has gone on. WHEN are they going to wave the green flag? I posted about the caution flag about 2 weeks ago, remember? Well, since then, the return receipt has been received. We thought we were then "home free" and that the green flag was back out. Nope. Nada. Zilch. I have now learned that the Judge has to review the thing again, making sure that everything is set with it and then she has to sign it. After that, we can get the certified copies we need. Now, you must remember that the Judge has had this document for the last 30+ calendar days. She knows what it says. She doesn't need any more time to review it. She's already done that. So, sign the darned thing, would ya? J and I were quite disgusted last night when we found out. We were hoping that we were going to receive the certified copies yesterday only to find out that we have to wait. wait. wait. again. again. again. J said, "You know. The average person would not believe that we are waiting for the Judge to review and sign a piece of paper that she has had for 30+ days. It just doesn't make sense to any rational person." She's right. It doesn't. The translator is going to try and get news on this on Monday. Please pray. Please pray for the Judge's heart to be softened and for her hand to be ready to SIGN the thing on Monday so that we can get this going. The cases for 6 children will be able to get the green flag as soon as we can get the paperwork. I know that 6 kids isn't very many in the world, but when one of them is YOUR kid, it's huge. No green flag until we can get this paperwork. So, we keep going round and round. Round and round. I'm ready for this ride to stop. I'm getting sick.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Caution
The definition of caution according to my dictionary: alertness and prudence in a hazardous situation. Yep, I get it. This weekend, the time "expired" for any entity in Guatemala to appeal the sentencia from the Appeals Court. No filed one (this has also been referred to as a Constitutional Injunction in some of my posts)! Yippee! And so, we will proceed with caution. While the situation isn't necessarily hazardous, I could become hazardous if this doesn't hurry! We are actually waiting for one piece of paper to be returned from an area that is a bit of a jog from the City. I'm told it's like sending something via certified mail with a return receipt--we're waiting for the return receipt. It SHOULD be back this week. Then, we can get the certified copies we need of this sentencia to proceed both with the US Embassy and with the PGN (attorney general's office). I'm cautiously optimistic that once we can get this rolling, it will be quick. Lord, I hope so.
THANK YOU for your prayers. We need them. The children need them. Please keep praying for the things I listed a few posts ago. You can scratch off the Constitutional Injunction one because we survived that one!
Hang on, HG! We're coming, baby. We'rd coming.
THANK YOU for your prayers. We need them. The children need them. Please keep praying for the things I listed a few posts ago. You can scratch off the Constitutional Injunction one because we survived that one!
Hang on, HG! We're coming, baby. We'rd coming.
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Specific Prayer List, updated
Updated:
I have added specific prayers for one more little one at the end of the listing. I also fixed a typo in there--sorry!
During this journey to bring HG home, my faith has grown. It has been tested, but in the end, it has grown. I KNOW that God will take care of me. My human side, however, likes to think it should take over.... I decided to make a list of all of the specific things for which I should pray daily for our case as well as the others caught in this mess. I emailed the families in process, asking them if they would like to add something to my list that is either particular to their child or their case. I'm pasting this lengthy list below. One of the families thanked me for writing it out like this. I'm a list maker. I don't always get it all accomplished or marked off of my list, but I like seeing things in writing and this helps me to keep my communcations going with God. I hope it helps you too.
PRAYERS:
Process
--for people in power and decision making positions to do what's best for our child
--for there to be no Constitutional Injunction this week
--for the hearts of everyone will be softened to act quickly on behalf of our children
--for all obstacles to be removed and the process to be able to flow quickly through
--for our cases to have favor with officials and for God to remove those people who stand in our way
--for the children to no longer be held by the injustices of adults for which they had no control over
--for the process to be quick and without setbacks
Families
--continued strength to perservere through the process
--financial resources to provide for our families as well as the adoption needs
--support and caring from our own circle of friends
--for the other children in our families to not feel neglected or "short changed"
--for a sense of peace surrounding the process
--for the knowledge and wisdom needed to bring our new children into our families and how to best meet their needs once they do come home to us
--for peace and healing for us as the parents and families, in mind and soul
--for knowledge and peace with the understanding of why we have endured this process in our efforts to bring the children home
--for God to "save us from persecution by those who seek to do evil."
--for God's perfect will to be done, whether that means our children grow up with us here in the US or in Guatemala
--for us to accept God's perfect will
Children in Process
--for God's continued protection of their bodies and minds
--for the current caregivers, that they will love and nurture our children as their own until they can join us
--for the children to continue to learn
--for their comfort, knowing that we are here, preparing our lives to include them physically
--for their health
--for each child to receive the proper stimulation and nurturing needed to minimize institutional behaviors
Specifics for each child:
SM
--for continued physical growth and development
--for good health
--for her to begin to learn about families and understanding of how she will fit into one
--for her to know the love of her family
--for her to continue to learn
MA
--for the orphanage to release MA the care of the foster mom
--for the orphanage to release MA's paperwork/file
--for MA to be able to transition smoothly to the foster family
HG:
--for her to not be confused about why we had to leave her
--for her mind to stay open and accepting of us as her family
--for her to wear her glasses and eye patches as needed to help her vision to improve
--for her to continue to gain strength and stability in her movements/mobility
--for her to continue to learn at her school as well as with her foster family
--for her to know that we love her and are ready for her to come home to us
CP:
--for him to understand that his family is working hard to get him home
--for his mind and body to be protected from harm
--for him to remain strong, happy, and to feel loved
--for physical growth and endurance
AC:
--for her to continue to grow and learn in her current beautiful envirnoment in Guatemala
--for her to begin to adjust to life without her "brothers and sister" she has currently at her orphanage as they start to go home to their families
--for her to bond to her family in a way that gives everyone more strength and love
C:
--for God to surround his mind, body, and soul with His goodness and protection
RA:
--for God to surround his mind, body, and soul with His goodness and protection
--for RA to be receiving the attention and emotional care that he needs
--for RA to not have any anxieties or fears after his accident
--for RA know that his family loves him and is working hard to bring him home
JR:
--for God to surround his mind, body, and soul with His goodness and protection
IC:
-for her to not have a negative perception when she grows up of Guatemala based on the events of the past 2 years
-for her to not feel unloved or confused when her family visits and then leaves
-for her to be provided love, guidance, and patience until she is forever in the arms of her family
-for her biological mother to stay involved in the process for as long as it takes to complete
-for her case to be submitted to Family Court and for the social worker to work accurately and quickly
I have added specific prayers for one more little one at the end of the listing. I also fixed a typo in there--sorry!
During this journey to bring HG home, my faith has grown. It has been tested, but in the end, it has grown. I KNOW that God will take care of me. My human side, however, likes to think it should take over.... I decided to make a list of all of the specific things for which I should pray daily for our case as well as the others caught in this mess. I emailed the families in process, asking them if they would like to add something to my list that is either particular to their child or their case. I'm pasting this lengthy list below. One of the families thanked me for writing it out like this. I'm a list maker. I don't always get it all accomplished or marked off of my list, but I like seeing things in writing and this helps me to keep my communcations going with God. I hope it helps you too.
PRAYERS:
Process
--for people in power and decision making positions to do what's best for our child
--for there to be no Constitutional Injunction this week
--for the hearts of everyone will be softened to act quickly on behalf of our children
--for all obstacles to be removed and the process to be able to flow quickly through
--for our cases to have favor with officials and for God to remove those people who stand in our way
--for the children to no longer be held by the injustices of adults for which they had no control over
--for the process to be quick and without setbacks
Families
--continued strength to perservere through the process
--financial resources to provide for our families as well as the adoption needs
--support and caring from our own circle of friends
--for the other children in our families to not feel neglected or "short changed"
--for a sense of peace surrounding the process
--for the knowledge and wisdom needed to bring our new children into our families and how to best meet their needs once they do come home to us
--for peace and healing for us as the parents and families, in mind and soul
--for knowledge and peace with the understanding of why we have endured this process in our efforts to bring the children home
--for God to "save us from persecution by those who seek to do evil."
--for God's perfect will to be done, whether that means our children grow up with us here in the US or in Guatemala
--for us to accept God's perfect will
Children in Process
--for God's continued protection of their bodies and minds
--for the current caregivers, that they will love and nurture our children as their own until they can join us
--for the children to continue to learn
--for their comfort, knowing that we are here, preparing our lives to include them physically
--for their health
--for each child to receive the proper stimulation and nurturing needed to minimize institutional behaviors
Specifics for each child:
SM
--for continued physical growth and development
--for good health
--for her to begin to learn about families and understanding of how she will fit into one
--for her to know the love of her family
--for her to continue to learn
MA
--for the orphanage to release MA the care of the foster mom
--for the orphanage to release MA's paperwork/file
--for MA to be able to transition smoothly to the foster family
HG:
--for her to not be confused about why we had to leave her
--for her mind to stay open and accepting of us as her family
--for her to wear her glasses and eye patches as needed to help her vision to improve
--for her to continue to gain strength and stability in her movements/mobility
--for her to continue to learn at her school as well as with her foster family
--for her to know that we love her and are ready for her to come home to us
CP:
--for him to understand that his family is working hard to get him home
--for his mind and body to be protected from harm
--for him to remain strong, happy, and to feel loved
--for physical growth and endurance
AC:
--for her to continue to grow and learn in her current beautiful envirnoment in Guatemala
--for her to begin to adjust to life without her "brothers and sister" she has currently at her orphanage as they start to go home to their families
--for her to bond to her family in a way that gives everyone more strength and love
C:
--for God to surround his mind, body, and soul with His goodness and protection
RA:
--for God to surround his mind, body, and soul with His goodness and protection
--for RA to be receiving the attention and emotional care that he needs
--for RA to not have any anxieties or fears after his accident
--for RA know that his family loves him and is working hard to bring him home
JR:
--for God to surround his mind, body, and soul with His goodness and protection
IC:
-for her to not have a negative perception when she grows up of Guatemala based on the events of the past 2 years
-for her to not feel unloved or confused when her family visits and then leaves
-for her to be provided love, guidance, and patience until she is forever in the arms of her family
-for her biological mother to stay involved in the process for as long as it takes to complete
-for her case to be submitted to Family Court and for the social worker to work accurately and quickly
Monday, October 12, 2009
On Hold
I know I haven't updated much on HG's case. Sadly, there isn't much to report. Remember me talking about the Appeals Court issuing their "sentencia?" Well, that came out about 2 weeks ago. Remember me talking about the US Embassy requesting more paperwork? These two things have now become twisted together for me, resulting in a "holding pattern" for us for now. I need a certified copy of the Sentencia, but I cannot obtain one for about 2 more weeks. See, technically someone could appeal the sentencia and they have 30 calendar days to do so. IF this happens, it's bad, bad news for us all. It could take 1-2 YEARS to clear this type of appeal. Please pray that this doesn't happen. Now, nothing has been stated as being wrong with HG's case, BUT since she is still tied to the original orphanage and, from what I am told, she cannot be legally separated from that in this matter, our case would be stuck. Again, please pray that the appeal of the Appeal/sentencia does not happen for the sake of all of the children involved (14 children), not just HG. None of us can endure going through this, that's for sure. We've all been through enough. If no one files to appeal the sentencia, then we should resume processing in the last week of October (both with the Guatemalan side and with the US Embassy simultaneously). I am going to pray and claim that the appeal of the sentencia doesn't happen. Will you join me?
Saturday, October 3, 2009
A Tale of Two Families
No news from Guatemala. :( The US Embassy is now requesting a copy of the sentencia/resolution that the Appeals Court issued. While this sounds like it should be an easy thing to complete, I must request a certified copy in writing, have the 15 pages translated into English, and then I can submit it to the Embassy. Yuck. I also do not know what this has to do with the Embassy issuing their consent, but whatever. I would spend more time fighting it than I would to get it done, so we are moving ahead with getting it done. We do hope to have news by the middle of the week on the status with the PGN/attorney general's office.
I wanted to share with you about two families that I know. Family #1 has adopted two children, both through the same program as HV, HM, and the one that started HG's adoption. During their second process, they had lots of extra fees to pay. Family #2 has also adopted two children through the same program. Family #2 knows of Family #1 and knew of all of the fees that #1 was having to pay. #2 paid some of the fees for #1, saying that they had the funds and were happy to help. Family #1 knows that the fees were paid but doesn't know the identity of Family #2. Now, jump forward to our current situation of not having all of the funds to complete HG's adoption. Family #2 has suffered a job loss this year and is still unemployed. Their support and friendship, however, has been priceless during our adoption. Family #1 mailed me a check last week with a note inside. It said:
Remember when someone paid some of our fees during our child's adoption? Well, we're paying it forward and now we're helping you.
I shared this with Family #2, showing how even though they couldn't help us financially right now, their financial generosity in the past has paid off to help us after all! Isn't that neat? The gift from Family #1 allowed us to pay all of our adoption bills owed at the beginning of October. God provides. We have continued to be humbled and grateful for all that you guys have done. It's just too much at times. J told me the other day that she has been amazed at what I have done with this fundraising. I told her it wasn't me at all. She corrected herself, saying that it's amazing what God has done in the fundraising. She's right. It's amazing.
I wanted to share with you about two families that I know. Family #1 has adopted two children, both through the same program as HV, HM, and the one that started HG's adoption. During their second process, they had lots of extra fees to pay. Family #2 has also adopted two children through the same program. Family #2 knows of Family #1 and knew of all of the fees that #1 was having to pay. #2 paid some of the fees for #1, saying that they had the funds and were happy to help. Family #1 knows that the fees were paid but doesn't know the identity of Family #2. Now, jump forward to our current situation of not having all of the funds to complete HG's adoption. Family #2 has suffered a job loss this year and is still unemployed. Their support and friendship, however, has been priceless during our adoption. Family #1 mailed me a check last week with a note inside. It said:
Remember when someone paid some of our fees during our child's adoption? Well, we're paying it forward and now we're helping you.
I shared this with Family #2, showing how even though they couldn't help us financially right now, their financial generosity in the past has paid off to help us after all! Isn't that neat? The gift from Family #1 allowed us to pay all of our adoption bills owed at the beginning of October. God provides. We have continued to be humbled and grateful for all that you guys have done. It's just too much at times. J told me the other day that she has been amazed at what I have done with this fundraising. I told her it wasn't me at all. She corrected herself, saying that it's amazing what God has done in the fundraising. She's right. It's amazing.
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Day of the Child
Today is the Day of the Child in Guatemala. I knew that. I didn't realize, however, that those people that work on behalf of the children, like the gal we needed to talk to yesterday/today, takes the day off because it's the Day of the Child. Oh well. They'll try again tomorrow.
I'm tired. I've slept for 9 hours total for the last 2 nights combined. I'm grumpy and this just isn't sitting well with me. Sure, take another holiday, right?
Good night.
I'm tired. I've slept for 9 hours total for the last 2 nights combined. I'm grumpy and this just isn't sitting well with me. Sure, take another holiday, right?
Good night.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
No news today
The gal we needed to talk to today was in a meeting. :( So, no news today. We hope to have something tomorrow. Keep praying! I didn't have a lot of time yesterday to post (and I don't tonight either), but I'll try to explain in a nutshell what's supposed to be happening exactly. The Appeals Court came out with their "sentencia" at the end of last week. HG's file is in the PGN, the attorney general's office BUT it is in the Minor's Section, not the regular processing section currently. The gal we need to talk to stated last week that she was going to try and pull the file up to the the regular processing section. Our prayer request is that she is indeed able to do this and that it's already been done. This gal has stated that she will process the case as soon as she gets it and so we also pray that she will keep her word and do this. As you know from our previous experiences, it seems that many Guatemalans are worse than most about keeping their word. The lack of accountability is probably THE most frustrating thing about this whole process. So, please pray for this gal. I won't give her name, but God knows who she is.
J and I have continued to be humbled by those of you that have contributed to HG's adoption fund. We are grateful and we thank you. We look forward to sending you the "I'm Home!" announcement as soon as HG is indeed home with us.
J and I have continued to be humbled by those of you that have contributed to HG's adoption fund. We are grateful and we thank you. We look forward to sending you the "I'm Home!" announcement as soon as HG is indeed home with us.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Wednesday Prayers
While I don't expect the final approval tomorrow, we are hoping for some good news tomorrow. I'll fill you in after I get the news, but please pray for goodness tomorrow. Oh, I'm ready for my girlie to come home. I think I'm nesting and ready for her--now!
We did finally get the results from J's MRI on her liver from a week ago. Praise the Lord, it's fine! They do want to repeat it in 6 months, but the doctor said that she isn't too concerned at this point. Praise the Lord!
We did finally get the results from J's MRI on her liver from a week ago. Praise the Lord, it's fine! They do want to repeat it in 6 months, but the doctor said that she isn't too concerned at this point. Praise the Lord!
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